(June 20, 2009)
Three new haiku from contributors, and reader commentary on Spoiled Brat
Syndrome.
I feel blessed to have receive new haiku from frequent contributors Jed H. and Steven R.:
Jed H.:
Clowns, chimps, crooks, cheats, thieves;
Smoke, mirrors, wizards, MAGIC;
The U.S., goin' BROKE!!
Steven R.:
Manipulate truth
One green shoot portends rebirth
dead on arrival
EAUEW!
you are so cynical
but you are correct
You may reckon it is tempting to only reprint reader comments which parallel my
own views, but for me the opposite is actually true: I try to reprint those which make
an opposing case because I think everyone needs to make up their own mind. After all,
there are plenty of propaganda sites where you can go and predictably find what
you already know you'll agree with. That does not create an informed public or informed
voters. As for the Mainstream Media--it too is propaganda of the most blatant sort,
always talking up "green shoots," "the worst is over," "the recovery is underway," etc.
The value of reader commentary to me is that it always opens a new understanding of the full
range of the problem/challenge at hand. With that in mind, please read these diverse and
thought-provoking commentaries in response to
Incentives, Disincentives and Spoiled Brat Syndrome (June 17, 2009).
No one wrote to make the opposing case, i.e. that Americans were not spoiled. That in itself
speaks volumes. Certainly not all Americans are spoiled brats, but the mindset of
entitlement and self-aggrandizement has conquered the culture.
Laura I.
I enjoy all of your essays, but I really enjoyed the one about the Spoiled Brat Syndrome.
I completely agree with everything you said and would like to add one more thing I don’t
think you touched on very deeply, something that I see as the worst consequence of the
positive reinforcement, everyone is a star culture. That is, few people know how to think;
to figure out a way for themselves. Few people know how to recognize the causal
relationships that help them understand a situation or recognize an opportunity and few
people have the ability to observe/realize the intricate details/ process flow of a situation.
As you said in your essay, your construction foreman got jobs by first observing and
targeting another worker on the job site. His ability to produce output kept him the job,
but his ability to observe the workings (process flows, who was responsible for what, etc.)
and locate an opportunity within those workings is what got him the job.
How many people do you meet nowadays who still have this ability? I meet very few. If you
never experience cause and effect in your own life (including the negative effects), how
would you ever learn to recognize it in the world at large? I have observed this consistently
in young adults making the choices of what college to go to, what to major in, what jobs
to apply for. They spend 4+ years obtaining a psychology degree or history degree never
wondering what their potential for work/job/career will be when they graduate. Or never
contemplating a scenario other than best case. Nor do they ever undertake a return on
investment analysis when making the decision on which college to attend. They have no
ability to calculate potential consequences of any action including those that obligate
them for 20, 50 or 100 thousand dollars. When they search for a job their only criteria
is what they “want” to do; not what will the job require, how much do they need to make
to pay their bills, support themselves or (gasp!) save for future goals, not to mention
position themselves for future career goals.
The ability to strategize, to sacrifice one’s “wants” for a better outcome later has been
eliminated. There is a colleague at my work place who openly admitted to a group of his
peers including his boss and boss’s boss that he chose his present job over the same
job at a different company because he knew here he wouldn’t have to work as hard.
(Say what?!?!)
It’s the rare employee now who when finished with an assigned task, tells their boss they
are available for a new task. Most sit at their desks or bum around, waiting for their
boss to psychically realize their availability. Considering most people don’t like to be
micromanaged, you’d think they’d figure out if they volunteered such information, their
boss would bug them much less, but that would mean understanding the mechanics of a process
and many don’t have that ability.
Worse, they have lost the meaning of what a job is; I
employ you to complete tasks for me. If there are no more tasks, then essentially the
necessity of that employee has ended as well. Actually accomplishing something at work
has become the side-story, not the main idea of being employed.
The other consequence of the spoiled-brat syndrome is a complete inability to assign
self-blame, to honestly self-reflect on what could have been done differently, how
actions/words were perceived, how could they have been better conveyed. When something
doesn’t go right (jobs, relationships, etc), it’s always someone else’s fault. In an
effort to nurture self-esteem we have developed a society of people who are all right
all of the time. “It’s okay that I am 300 lbs and 5’2” because that’s who I am. It’s okay
that I don’t have any idea how take care of my house and car because that’s who I am.
It’s okay that my bank account is constantly over-drawn because that’s who I am. I am
never wrong.”
All logic and cause and effect has been eliminated in favor of self-esteem.
But self-respect, happiness, emotional connectedness and lives with meaning seems to
have been lost too. We have become a nation of zombies, having never felt the wretchedness
of regret (when did that word become so taboo?) we never experience the true inner
satisfaction, the true self respect, the true confidence of a self-earned victory. We
have no passions worth sacrifice, no character worth enduring and no sorrow at separation.
Marc B.
I enjoyed your piece today on "spoiled brat syndrome". It's entrenched, but perhaps a contributing factor is that so much of the work today is unnecessary and without meaning.
I've pondered the future of work too. Sadly, under the current system, I see misery ahead for the majority of Americans due to globalization and automation (not to mention crushing debts).
Many rail against the "service" economy, but I don't see how any other outcome could have been expected. Sure we've outsourced much of our manufactuing, but we've automated much of it too. Despite the massive outsourcing, we manufacture far more today than ever and we do so with fewer employees. Just wait until we really start automating away our service jobs. Stores such as Home Depot already have automated/self checkout! Banking is now largely automated too - I haven't dealt with a teller in years.
Another blogger asked me what George Jetson did for a living. His point was that he knew George had a job, but since everything was automated, exactly what did he do? After a little "work" researching the issue, I sent him this link:
The Jetsons
Again, (imo) so much of today's "work" is not only unnecessary, it is also completely without meaning. If you remove vanity from the equation, I'm quite certain we could get by (and possibly be much happier) with less than half our current work force.
The viability of a debt based money system is suspect when supply exceeds demand. I'm not sure it can handle the trend towards a Jetson's type future.
One more thought. I'm short vanity and long free time. Bernanke better hope my mindset doesn't become a trend.
Gene M.
I loved your rant, for one, because I once was a carpenter too. Not a custom worker, I learned my trade building tract houses and 4-plex condos. The burden of the physical work was really hard at first, coming from a university professor's life. The foreman did not have to watch you; he could tell at the end of the day how much you had done. It was produce or you were gone, simple as that. My partner and I finally got so good we could do the work of 3 guys. Then we went into business for ourselves--at the worst possible time, when interest rates were sky high.
Recently when we had some work done at our house, I asked the caucasian contractor about his Mexican workers, who were working pretty hard. He said you can't find Anglos who would work like that. I was pretty shocked, since that was pretty much the norm in my day (the 70's and early 80's).
I know my old friends still in academia recount similar stories about the spoiled brat syndrome. One told me about the female student who wanted to turn her paper in well after the deadline. He said it was probably the first time in her life someone ever said "No" to her. In fact this oldest and dear friend serves up the most F's and C's in his department. Nobody else even gives grades this low.
I've always told my own grown children and anyone else who would listen that you earn your badge as a parent by saying "No." Saying yes is easy. The spoiled brat syndrome and your comments are well expressed by the most current parenting practices, which seem to spread like a virus. I see it in my own daughter and her children, as well as her friends.
K.K.
When you mentioned “gaming the system” it reminded me of the
CHP/Cop/Firefighter scam where “most” are now retiring as “disabled”
since they get more money and a big chunk of the retirement payments
tax free forever.
Caltax.org
KGO News: More Questions In CHP Disability Fraud Probe
80 percent of assistant chiefs retired on disability. Almost as many
deputy chiefs did the same.
Pat Macht, Calpers Spokesperson: "If they have a disability retirement
and they reach over age 50, we really don't have any enforcement tools
to go against them for that kind of fraud."
Specifically, state law forbids Calpers from requiring disabled
retirees who are 50 or older to submit to another medical evaluation,
even if there is evidence of possible fraud.
"Outgoing State Senator Jackie Speier says powerful lobbying interests
killed pension reform bills, including her legislation that would have
given Calpers that kind of leverage."
As I have mentioned I’m in my mid 40’s and I have firefighter and cop
friends who (except one) never finished college and ALL (according to
the SF Gate search feature) are now pushing $200K (the one that
finished college made almost $300K last year and really does work
hard, he is planning to “retire” at 50 then take another job heading
another department and then “retire” again at 60 with two pensions of
over $500K a year.
The cops don’t have an easy job, but most of my firefighter friends’
work just 10 days a month and are paid big money to sleep (when was
the last time you heard of a major fire in a wealthy suburb?). You have to
hand it to the guys who keep getting big raises when there are
THOUSANDS of people that try out for every open position.
Dave E.
You wrote:
There are many reasons for the ascendency of Spoiled Brat Syndrome, but one
is the notion that a job or entitlement is deserved by reason of one's existence.
Heck, this is the attitude I see in government workers. In California now they're
talking about slashing all kinds of services to the public, but nary a word about
cutting government jobs, many of which are superfluous and wouldn't be missed.
The people running the government seem to have the attitude that the purpose of
government is to provide them with a job and retirement benefits, I guess just
because they are such darn great people. Unless government actually provides a
benefit to society, there is no point in having one.
Ken R.
I've been in management a long time and your statement --
In other words, disincentives can be more effective than incentives.
That is so wildly un-PC that it truly is "that which cannot be spoken, but
only whispered. --
could not be truer. We have another saying that is about "rewards" --
"No good deed goes unpunished."
Thank you, readers. I am working on updating Readers Journal with more
excellent reader commentary.
ENDNOTE: What strikes me as the purest form of misleading propaganda
is the MSM's shrill insistence that "everything will come back": housing valuations,
jobs, tax revenues, etc.
Sadly, this is completely unfounded: None of these things are coming back,
not housing, not jobs, and certainly not tax revenues. The structures which supported
abundant credit and government-backed mortgages (and thus the housing bubble) are gone.
The structures which supported abundant consumer credit and spending (and thus millions
of service-sector jobs) are gone. The structures which supported high tax revenues
(huge capital gains from stocks and housing, the FIRE economy's transactional fees,
rampant irresponsible credit and consumer spending) are also gone.
Pundits/think-tankers making the case that "everything's going to come back" never address
the structural decay/destruction which prohibits everything from returning to 2005.
Thus they are nothing but propagandists, paid cons and shills of a crumbling status quo.
A few classics in case you missed them:
The Long Emergency: Surviving the End of Oil, Climate Change, and Other Converging Catastrophes of the Twenty-First Century
James Howard Kunstler
Depletion and Abundance: Life on the New Home Front
Sharon Astyk
The Future of Life E.O. Wilson
Globalization and Its Discontents
Joseph Stiglitz
On Peak Oil:
Beyond Oil: The View from Hubbert's Peak
The Party's Over: Oil, War and the Fate of Industrial Societies
The End of Oil: On the Edge of a Perilous New World
Twilight in the Desert: The Coming Saudi Oil Shock and the World Economy
On chemical/toxins overload:
Our Stolen Future: How We Are Threatening Our Fertility, Intelligence and Survival
On the demographic time bomb about to explode:
Fewer: How the New Demography of Depopulation Will Shape Our Future
The Coming Generational Storm: What You Need to Know about America's Economic Future
On collapse of advanced civilization:
Collapse: How Societies Choose to Fail or Succeed
(Jared Diamond)
The Collapse of Complex Societies
A realistic appraisal of alternative energy:
Sustainable Energy - Without the Hot Air
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